5 reasons I dislike going to the grocery store with my kids:
1. Ava always wants the car cart that weighs 100 lbs and is very difficult to maneuver.
2. Between pushing Emmies wheelchair and pulling the 100lb cart I knock stuff over.
3. People stare so bad with their jaws dropped to the floor like they have NEVER seen a handicapped child in their life.
4. Ava asks for everything in sight and freaks when I leave them in the big aisle to run down a small one to grab something.
5. Emmie has a hard time holding her head so i am constantly putting her head back up.
BUT...... there are times like today that I am grateful for Christ-like people that actually think of others! I left my house this morning to pick up my carpool for Avas preschool. As soon as I was going to drop them off I was headed to the grocery store to get all the Thanksgiving items I needed. When I made my first carpool stop, one mother had told me they dont have school today due to Thanksgiving! "WHAT? It's wed not thurs." What's up with these preschools taking off the week for a holiday? I'm thinking... "I guess this is going to be fun at the grocery store!" (hoping that the 100lb car cart wasn't available). WRONG!!!! So, I get out of my car and start unloading the kids. My sweet brother in law, Mason happens to walk up and helps me unload Emmies wheelchair! Thanks Mason, that made my trip a little easier! So, I'm shopping along pushing the wheelchair, pulling the car cart, talking on the phone because I am trying to get all the ingredients I need for everything so I don't have to make another trip, and i get a call from my friend Kari telling me they actually DO have pre-school today! Halleleuah! She comes and gets Ava so I unload all our stuff into a NORMAL cart so I can finish my shopping. That way, I am shopping with Emmie and a lighter cart! The grocery store was packed with all the last minute shoppers so it wasnt making our trip easy to get through the aisles. As I proceed to checkout, the sweet manager gets me out of the 30 minute line and tells me to come over to a different register and she will check me out. She was probably thinking I looked CRAZY! She says, "why dont you take your daughter and load her up while I check you out." She empties my cart for me bags it and brings it out to my car. All i had to do was run in and sign my credit card while she loaded my car! How sweet was that? I don't want ANYONE to EVER feel pity for me and my situation but that simple kind gesture made my day and made me WANT to be a better person to people like she was to me! I am grateful for people that think of others, especially this time of year! I hope you all have a Happy Thanksgiving!
Wednesday, November 21, 2007
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Thanks for sharing that story! Its nice to know that there are a FEW thoughtful people out there!
*sometimes i think in those crazy moments when we're holding back tears & about to lose it, God places people in our paths to give us a lift of our burdens. Glad people were put in your path on your grocery store trip. thx for sharing:)
I still can not believe how you get around with your girls. YOu amaze me and I could never do what you do. That makes me want to shop at Fry's. What a nice lady. And seriously you lucked out, I really did wait in line for 20min. Have fun tomorrow!
WOW Tiffany....you just totally put things into perspective for me. I always complain about the misery of taking 4 kids to the grocery store, but I never even THOUGHT about how difficult it is for you loading and unloading not only a cart full of groceries, but a wheelchair and handicapped child...you are amazing! I am crying while I am typing this...LOL...I can't believe how ungrateful I have been....YES...I have 4 naughty kids who make me crazy at the store, but they all walk and I only have a cart to push...and the only reason anyone stares is because I am popping veins in my forehead while I try and quietly yell at them while gritting my teeth! You inspire me....you just made me realize how blessed I am that my children are capable of being naughty....sweet Emmie couldn't be naughty if she tried....what a gift!
You are amazing Tiffany! What a great story! It reminds me that I need to look outside of my little bubble and help others a little more. It's the little acts of kindess that go a long way! Thanks for sharing that!
Thank goodness for Emmie's angel's who are with her @ all times! These are the lesson's we are all suppose to be learning from her. I am glad your shopping trip turned out to be one of those lessons we ALL need to hear. Thanks for sharing & Happy Thanksgiving! Love you EM BUG!!!
Thank goodness for Emmie's angel's who are with her @ all times! These are the lesson's we are all suppose to be learning from her. I am glad your shopping trip turned out to be one of those lessons we ALL need to hear. Thanks for sharing & Happy Thanksgiving! Love you EM BUG!!!
I forgot to comment about the part with Ava & the shopping Cart... that is funny, Soph does the same thing, I try to distract her by pointing the other way when we walk in, so she thinks there is none available! What a mean mom!!!
You are an amazing mom Tiffany. You have always been strong and that is why you have been blessed and chosen to have a celestial child to take care of. It is so great to hear that there are nice people in this world and that they can go the extra mile. Happy Thanksgiving and enjoy those little girls!
You are such an awesome mom and an example to us all. I'm glad you had people to help you out that day..hopefully you can have that happen more often.
Shopping with kids is always an adventure...but you really put it into perspective for me. Thank goodness for kind people who are aware of other people's needs.
OK...I used to dread those dumb carts with the cars or whatever on them, but I switched grocery stores and it has changed my life! Basha's has a play place where they do art projects. There is a new Basha's near us that has a really nice lady who works at the play place...Cotton LOVES it! They have a really good system, and it is so clean. All of my sis-in-laws shop there too. :)
Tiffany, August Rush is playing at the Harkins Theaters by Supertition Mall. I just saw it there on Friday.
Wow! That is amazing! What a great heart she had!
I hate that car cart too! And I NEVER go to the store with both girls! NEVER!! At least not alone, you are a brave soul my dear!
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